A New Turn on Her Living Space.

Some people think of home as their escape from stress. Others find it as a warmth of loved ones. And still few find it is as their expressive zone to jumble their thoughts and passions into their surroundings. This is actually a healthy manner. With the chaotic world out there, we need an expressive place to sit down in of our own. Make your room, your apartment, or even just your kitchen into something pleasing to the eye, and you might just recognize how to shift your perspective on your choices and outlooks in life, as well. When you re-organize, declutter, and design your living space you also, organize, expel and reroute your vibes. The things you surround yourself with daily, are what influence you, just like the people you hang out with, daily. Here are four ways to make your private place your very own:

1) Clean Out- Clean out. The very first thing and so important, which is why it is listed first. Clean out the old things that hold back the "old you". Reflect on the things that brought bad memories. That old shirt you always borrowed from your ex. Everything you don't need anymore. Any clothing that always brought bad luck or bad mojos. Clean out old furniture that reminded you of the times with your missed close ones and now you always feel sad when you see it, because they are far away now. Throw out all the dirt, that brings negative vibes into your mind. Everyone knows that we had too much of that throughout the week. The "past" you is not always a position you should take into account or give special consideration to, because we are growing and learning in a better way everyday. That is our purpose. To grow.

2) Play it Cool- The new trend these days, if you might want to try it in your home or at your desk, is an edgy, clean-cut and sharp formed place. A place where there is big space and everything is organized. Make your home "future friendly", if we want to exaggerate it a bit, as this trend adds to a workaholic vibe and sharp-minded play out in personality. Having an updated fridge, coffee maker or counter-tops is usually the thought here. Because instead of putting money into many belongings, the future friendly trend is to buy little, but spend more money on what needs to spent, these days, even in your home or any space on that notion.

But if you don't have the money right away to make your place very edgy, you could say, just make your home more edgy, by having a lot of space, with few belongings and more organized. People these days are becoming more sharp, focused and business friendly in personality. They want an entrepreneur attitude in a "big city". We are all too busy building ourselves, or chasing our dreams. If you want to tag along in this adventure, try it in your home, but with less cost.

By the way, why is this new attraction of design so admired? Because it gets you alert in the fast paced world these days. Especially for young women, we are always chasing the next "opportunity" or bettering ourselves in character for all the opportunities we have with each next year, esp. when we hit 30. However some people like, a more "homey", back to old fashion, vibe in their home. This is great too, but just keep in mind always, the less clutter, the better. We are all too busy to think about our house when we get home from a busy day, or think about money in an overdone home. Our mind is always at work, at our jobs. It is a fast past world these days. Any objects you have at home, that are not needed (black/white needed), the more free your mind is at the end of the day.

3) Shake it Up- Take old things that brought good memories now. They center our mind, always, in our chaotic or exhausting lives. Then repaint them or take care of them. Put them in a special place in your house. Now, brighten up the living area or your hallway or that old room, or even your walk-in entrance when you open the door to your apartment with other special decor you hold dear. Your space is too special to hold nothing more, than just the things that really inspire you daily. But just make sure your place is only a little loud with some few objects, so your living space doesn't look like a circus or doesn't speak too much chaos when you enter. Unless you know how to combine colors in a warm pleasing tone to the eye.

Rebuild and "glue" back broken possessions or belongings, also. Nail that damaged, comfy chair that your cousin always sat in. Fix all the things in your house that need a revise or absolute makeover. Then add a tad-bit of a darted, flaunting color in specific places to liven up your mood when you wake up in the morning. Pick some girly fabric at the department store, because that brings out our best mood or inspiration sometimes, because, c'mon, we are all feminine by nature from birth. We can't let that go, ever. Besides girly tones or styles in your surroundings, set off a trigger in ourselves to fix ourselves up before going to the office in the morning. So maybe adding it in the bathroom is a notion well thought of.

Buy a new blanket for a "new" you. Blankets and a nurturing book, on a rainy or slow day are a woman's best escape. Pick a style in your home or special room, you love that brings good vibes and aspirations to your day, just in all. And add that style to a little of everything in your home. We need something that gets us up and going every now and then. And remember you can never go wrong with a light aqua, or a white (as casual), sheer black or olive green, if you are ever uncertain in colors. And if you are feeling a little more than feminine add baby set tones of pink or rose gold around your special, quiet zones of your room or living area near the couch, or even office. If you have one.

4) Bring Relaxation- A lot of people find that a pet is messy or stinky, but it is worth it if you take in the effort to altruistically take care and nurture them when you have had a long day from your job, a bad temporary break-up, a fight with friends or stress from even a workout at the gym. They de-stress you let's just say, in all. They let you know, you are not alone, always. They make you feel as if you are a worthy being, because unlike most people, circumstances or life for that matter, a dog or a special furry friend, like even a rabbit or cat, show you how a real "soul" should be treated and anyone else for that matter in your position. They ease your mind and get you back down to reality when the world is spinning. They center your aura, because some cats and esp. dogs have more common sense than a "smart" human should have. They also remind you of how you should treat your life situations, or other people overall, because of their natural instinct of altruism and forgiveness. Just remember if you take good care of them, and are responsible, you don't have to worry or complain about the smell or mess they make.

All together these things should make for a complete home, boarding room, condo or apartment. And don't forget to always wash your laundry every Sunday, and sometimes put scented candles in your very own night stand or hanging cabinet, so you feel at ease every time you enter your bedroom. Your space is your very own. Make it that way.

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