Confidence is not said through the words, "Barbie" or "Bratz".
- Holly Wichmann
- Aug 19, 2019
- 6 min read

This article is about how to use clothes for your confidence. Many people feel that if they gain weight, they can't fit anything, or if they lose weight, they don't look cute or curvy anymore. However, neither of these two are true. Actually, it depends on what makes you happy and fits to your personality flirt. I will go a little off topic here. If you ever owned a Barbie Doll or Bratz Doll, growing up, I will bring them to mention here. As you have noticed every Barbie Doll, is the same standard size, but as we have grown from the year of barbie doll toys, we have learned that there is also a "Bratz" Doll, and everyone came to accept them because they learned that there is more than one body type. Actually, whether you look at a Barbie Doll or a Bratz Doll, there isn't just two different shapes or images for women, in this world. Maybe toy makers could make more different types of dolls, but they just haven't yet.
There are many different body types, when you actually look at the world, or it would be too boring. The world wouldn't be beautiful and so intriguing without variation and uniqueness. Because if you have common sense, and stop being so hard on yourself, (as a typical girl does, because of being a perfectionist and over analyzing things to a good amount), you will see that there are many shapes, heights, sizes and different colors in skin, eyes, and hair. We are all human! There is no one perfect. There are many perfects. There may be a standard of beautiful compared to what "you" or a certain group of people you hang out with, like, or admire, but in all this is a big world. There is no "one same" or we would have a "lifeless" living and nothing would be deemed "special" or certainly, "unique". Now that we have conquered this topic, let's talk about how to embrace the fact, that you are different, and use this special fact, to make you more attractive with the clothes you wear, and how you carry yourself, since there is only one "you".
Bigger Thigh Girls:
If you are like some many girls who have bigger thigh composition, maybe wearing jeans always or the right style of shorts that flatter your best assets and shape, will make you more brought out in appearance. A pair of shorts that are at a half way down the cut of your thighs, not too short to keep conservative, and then a little boyish style with rips may do, and always remembering that the pockets in front of the shorts and especially, certainly, the back, are making the butt not flat, but are at a right height compared to the upper back, and lower thighs. Don't try to be something that you are not in your appearance. Be what you are best at in your appearance, and then make your assets stand out, and the "little things" that you don't like, a matter of a wave to the hand. Make the parts of you that make you special stand out the most, all in all. Most girls with bigger thighs, also have a smaller stomach, and bigger chest. So wear a t-shirt that is boyfriend style, and hanging or something fitting, not too tightly but loose on the shoulders and arms, because this is more engaging when paired with jeans. You can wear a pair of jeans and sneakers always, because girls with bigger thighs sometimes have a very sexy backside, or shape of legs, because of the extra weight. They look feminine in the fact, that they look more fertile, because of their bigger chest and backside. And they put off the allure of a woman, who is laid back and easy going. These woman usually look mature, and give off a feminine, altruistic kind of appearance, because of their chubby and warm face as well. Remember, no matter your shape, you heard here, and maybe from your mama, that you can be at your best "beautiful"!
Taller Girls:
Now, the next body type I will talk about, is the tall girls. There are two types of tall girls. The shaped tall girls with more curves, and then the very skinny, or sort of more slim type of tall girls. Let's talk about the very skinny, first. Have you heard of Kendall Jenner? Yes, she is in this category. She has such a great height, but a very delicate, slim figure. She, however, knows how to flaunt this figure much better than most girls who are tall and skinny, and sometimes insecure. She makes looking tall and skinny, an ease and new "trend" and more than acceptable beauty. She really knows how to style with clothes. If you are like Kendall Jenner, or maybe not exactly in the same shapes, but you are tall and skinny still, you will look really great in many different forms of clothes, if you know what you are doing. Basically loose fitting tops or very, very close fitted tops, if you have a very flat stomach, look amazing for this body image. The loose tops you fit though should always be smooth and/or silky, and if they are otherwise, they should be ironed and arranged in a "tuck-in" to your jeans or a certain style to your skirt or pair of shorts. When choosing shorts or skirts for this height, however, and this built, you should make sure they are half length or more than past half-length going towards to your thighs and near the knee. Girls who are tall and skinny actually are at a real luck and will have "skinny jeans" as their best friend, because these bottoms were made just for them and look so fashionista and gorgeous with their legs. Even capri jean, as well, can make a go for them, however skinny and fitted, unless they found a boyfriend style fit.
Now lets talk about the girls, who are more shaped, but still tall. These girls actually have the perfect curves, because they are not too big, but their curves are stretched out over their height. They can wear anything that is fitting and showing to their curves actually and make them look very femininely. Actually their best flaunt is in fitted summer dresses, because tall girls look great in dresses, especially with their curves. And instead of more longer shorts, compared to the "Kendall Jenner" type of body, they can wear much shorter shorts, because of their sexy legs, and amazing backside. Even leggings and sandals make a check mark on that box towards an amazing wardrobe. And these girls also look amazing in black colors, because of their very feminine output.
Short and Petite:
Thirdly, I will mention the very short or five foot girls who are very petite. These girls are actually really cute, as is. And they can wear any dressy tops, and look really great in any skirt at first choice. Jeans, shorts, to any length, short or long, look great on them, because they have a very standard type of body shape that is small and formal. Fitted clothes or either loose look good on them. Just remembering and taking note, that if it is fitted on top it should be loose on bottom, and if it is loose on top, it should be fitted on bottom, However the only exception is if the woman is in real great shape, then she can wear fitted both bottom and top, like skinny jeans and a fitted t-shirt.
Showing off your Assets:
If you workout boxing a lot, like is trending in some women these days for extra exercise after study or work, or if you are shaped, by that yoga or Pilates, you can show off those arms in a sleeveless or show off those legs and "ass" in a pair of leggings or shorts. If you are not working out, you can show off those curves in a city dress, or any pair of clothing that flaunts. Besides your body, what about the color of your eyes, healthy or stand-out hair, or what about that Sun-Kissed Skin. Every body has three to five assets, at least, to think about. Show them off in what you wear. Not just with the style of clothes, but also with the color coordination to your physical attributes.
Besides your assets, physically, you may have some assets in your personality too. And don't forget that your personality goes way further than your appearance. Because a kind, and positive, or warm person brings out the best in others around them, and attracts more people to them, than any pair of clothing will, and even maybe a significant other. Your personality also shapes your attitude in your work ethic and your goals. If you know what is "right" and what is "wrong", you will go further in life, than a person who cannot accept their mistakes. Be reminded, however, how you dress, and how you take care of yourself, describes a lot about you. In other words, putting on makeup, as a touch up, is not a sin. It says a lot about you... that you can take initiative in life, if you can take further, and first and foremost, initiative in your self care.
Source for Image:
Rachel Brown. August 6, 2018. "Customizable Skincare Brand Rose & Abbot’s New Campaign Highlights The Individuality Of Women And Its Products For Them." BeautyIndependent. <https://www.beautyindependent.com/rose-and-abbot-digital-campaign/>. August 14, 2019.
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