Becoming a Success Instantly, For Her.

Sometimes it is hard to attain something because it seems so farfetched and faded out in the distance. Or it seems as if we aren't that person who is able to do that sort of thing, even if we want to be that person. We sometimes can't imagine ourselves doing a certain project, receiving a certain award, or becoming that person who always gets what they want and achieves every goal in their front instantly. All these things are ideas of a dream we think about every now and then, or maybe even constantly. But here is the thing: What you really want, you eventually become. What you constantly think about, turns into an energy around you and you become it eventually. So therefore if you want to be a success, think of yourself in a positive manner, so to say. Think of yourself as a success. The aroma you want to put out or admire so much, is what you become eventually. This is a rule of law in life and a certain constant. It is the law of attraction. That being that you attract what you think of constantly. We become our thoughts and our heart born desires. If you are thinking of something maybe so farfetched and saying to yourself, "Well, if there is a law of attraction, then why didn't I become a model or a singer?" Well I can say, we attract what we THINK we CAN attract. We can only go the mile that our thoughts go. So if you really wanted those things, you can have them, unless you are having a doubt that is. And if you are, maybe having a doubt, then that certain attainable thing that you so wanted was maybe meant for you in a certain different type of aspect or in a more unique way.... or maybe you just need more confidence. For example, Anne Curtis is too short for the standard height of a model here in the Philippines, but she has the title, because of her acting career. So you sort of get all the crackers in the box, here, if you can learn to attract blessings in a positive manner. That is if you can have a positive mindset. Here, in this blog, I will talk not only about the law of attraction totally and necessarily, but more of how to attain the things you want to attain through smaller baby steps of small goals making long term goals more achievable, and why short term goals first off are so important, to begin with. And the questions that come along with these journeys, in order to attain the characteristics and behaviors towards success.

First off, think shortly of the question: "Who do I want to be to myself, others and God in this life?" Everything you do for yourself, and that you do to others, and in consideration of God is involved in His way of abidance. When you have a good heart, you receive the right blessings. Karma is real. And you will be more successful in your goals, because God will guide you in the manner that you deserve, if you always do the right. When you think of God in each decision, you live much easier. If you want more security in this life, as well as assurance that you are living by peace and wellness in every faced situation, do the right thing always. This is actually a success question. Ask yourself it constantly. It is also a personality test to your true colors as an individual. If your personality has a good back bone and solid core of maturity, you can be sure you won't fall down hard in troubled times or hardships, and that you are doing all things in a responsible enough manner as to not wind up in the gutter someday. This personality eventually gives you a sturdy and clear pathway to your successes. Whether you are a writer in an office, a TV host or a lawyer at court, if you have a clear conscious you have a blessing of a clear road to happiness as well. It may seem weird to think of this concept in this aspect, but God and Karma is real. What you do, comes back to you. You always get what you deserve. And usually the people who care about others, also think positive thoughts about them self and positivity drags in more positivity around you. Unless you are a lazy person that is? You should always be hardworking in this life, on that note, or of course you will have lazy blessings in return. I'm not saying that just because you have a good heart, you always get whatever you want. You have to work for it in return. God teaches us to make smart decisions always. That is the whole point of The Bible. And He also teaches us in that Bible to not rely on others during our lifetime, but to be fair and work with our own hands. This is a part of responsibility and the most successful people know this key idea, by far.

Besides being responsible, secondly, you should think about "What type of things do I attract?"... in all certainty. Do you attract negativity or do you attract positivity? What are your constant thoughts? Sometimes God thinks that when we think about something always, it is almost like a dream, as if we want that certain thing when in reality we don't, but we are dragging it in, because it is always in our mind. Be what you want. If you want a happy ending in your life, then hit pause in your life and rewind your thoughts to take a look at what you are feeding your brain. Is it really good and positive? Then make sure that it is, if it isn't. Some people I met in high school had bad home situations where they were raised, and "dreamed" of suicide, even though they didn't really, in all, necessarily want it that way. Then this idea in their mind started coming out of their mouths, because of their "fantasies". Maybe they were even dreaming in their dreams at night about dark and unwholesome things. Who knows? Because this technically happens when you think or talk about something constantly. It came to also drag in the people they hung out with, who were "dark, negative" individuals as well, and then, later, they would talk about the group of popular kids in the school as if they were so lucky and fortunate compared to them, because they were so happy. You drag in what you feed your brain constantly. What you think of constantly comes out in your life. They cannot change their situation at home, but they can change how they react to it, because they have a choice. Life is a fight. God never gives us a battle we can not handle or overcome, if he didn't believe we would have the ability to make a way out of it. God is always waiting for you to drag in your blessings. If you want to attract good things in your life, which eventually lead to success, first attract God and His word, The Bible, if you want. Then all the blessings, will come in one by one. God is our calling and our way home, to our CHOSEN happy life. Don't forget Him, even when things go down hill, because we all know this, at times, can be easy to do, and also don't forget Him, when you at times, think you don't need Him, at all.

Thirdly, break down your goals into better habits and shorter term productivity. This is called short term goals, even if it doesn't look like it. After asking yourself, your necessary two questions, start making plans. You need to have goals in life, or you have no driven purpose, and then you can easily get depression at times, because you aren't making something out of yourself. God made us with a heart to have a purpose and a driving passion. And then He made us with two hands and feet to fulfill those deeds needed in landing out those passions. We should always be productive. Even if it isn't about our work or our career. We should be doing something that makes us grow in a healthy, happy or positive manner constantly. Which is what adds to your individuality and personality, and in return adds to your success. You should be creative in making your long term goals attainable. During free time, think of what you want to do with that free time in order to add to any success you want further down the road, later in your career(s). Make your happiness and success a full time job. I will note off Instagram models, here. They have a very different personality compared to other professionals. They use their diet, their fitness, their wardrobe, their blogging, their mediums of communication to fans at times (YouTube, messaging, Face Book), reading books, traveling, even teaching classes, surrounding themselves with the right friends... their full on soccer punch, bad-ass at going the extra mile in their career unlike others. They live the life the full mile that they put out on the web. If you want a success, then make sure you enjoy what you do, so you can be "bad-ass" like some of the models on Instagram...haha. Or even "bad-ass" like Taylor Swift. She is so into being a singer that she writes her own songs with so much passion as to make the lyrics stand out by far from ordinary song writers in Nashville. She thinks expertly at knowing her audience of young women and girls so well, because she is full throttle into giving her all or nothing, in her career. Ask yourself, "Do I want this or not?" also, when you think of a goal. Because the people who own it big in a certain career or industry, either want it ALL... or none of it at all. That is why they are so deserving. And their whole personality becomes that entity and being of that goal they want to attain. They have so much confidence, because they believe they are that person already. Either that or their parents instilled in them that certain characteristic, naturally, from birth, which drove them to their successes much easily. For example, Beyonce and Michael Jackson.... their parents were the ones who made them fight for being at the top of their game in owning it big in the singing industry, and they became a success overnight, because their parents instilled in them these desires. All in all, own it big, or don't own it at all.

Also, to point out lastly, Joel Osteen, a famous speaker and advisor in Houston, Texas, once said a concept considering the fact that usually what you are good at doing, is what you are meant to be doing, even if you wanted to be doing something otherwise or even if you thought you didn't like it so much at first. Heading towards the idea that whatever you are good at doing, if you believe in a Higher Being or entity, was instilled and put there for a reason and not on accident; as if you have a purpose with it and we have to fulfill it. So actually, a good advice, I can put here, is find what you are good at. Find your calling.

Sources for Images:

Dana Pharant. "How to Become A BadAss Successful Woman In Business" Ms.Career Girl. Web. December 9, 2019.