Breaking Stereotypes Lets in Healing.

I wrote this blog in a hurry today... I will go back over it the next week or when I have time or the next few days, to revise the grammar, misspelling and the hurried writing and thoughts... it looks like a text message now. So sorry. Your choice to read, still if you want, until I revise or finalize this.

Authenticity is the new cure. Don't be plastic. That is so 90s... As we grew older this idea notion became common sense of breaking stereotypes on certain characters or personalities to the people we want to keep a distance with or hang out with when we were much, much younger. We learned to accept all flaws of certain groups of people or certain friends or people that continuously kept coming across in our life. Yes, we should break stereotypes on certain people, because as we grew older we learned that certain people are built that way for a reason and to think negatively or in other aspects of a small mind, is immature. Don't think otherwise, so to say. Well, here lets talk about how releasing certain tensions in the girl "possy" in this world, breaks out demons from our past and helps us heal through walls that God put there intentionally so we could get to and were meant to overcome, in order to learn something about our self, and grow as a person, and especially as the type of women God ordained for us to be (esp. when we marry someday or have kids to lead...)

Sometimes, we come across certain people that have a certain different characteristic or have a certain personality we are not used to. Or sometimes we come across people that we are even already close to, but have battles with. For example, you get in a misunderstanding, because your best friend has a certain personality that may seem immature on your part or disrespectful at times. We then learn of how to deal with it, and then learn later of how to deal better with people who we have misunderstandings with in the future, because it may prepare us to be more patient or at times make us more understanding because of what we already saw related in this past experience. God gives us these battles so we can better realize who we are ourselves, as a person, later on in the future. He prepares us continuously for the person who he wants us to be. And for the future man He wants you to marry. And you will realize along the way that these battles make you more and more at ease in character, and more at peace, because your true person is coming out, and you feel more whole and complete. in essence, you are a matured eventually, step by step. And your parents will do a small role in this (actually a big role), from the very start, but when you get older, and once you get kicked out of the "bunker", and go out in the real world to experience these things on your own, you will realize that all the things that they taught you were either applicable to your character or applicable only to them. You learn more of who are, but in all, they are true almost all of the time and in other times, to some extent.

Experiencing different types of groups of people or cliques or different cultures of character, really make you mature faster, because you understand that one true standard of a matured thought is unified to some extent always in every group of people or character you come across. Some people are facing their own demons, or have their own battles, that are so hard for them to overcome, and once they meet someone or a group of people God makes them learn a lesson from them. That is always the case scenario with every person you come across with in your lifetime. They were meant to be there for a reason and help you in some way or aspect. And that is the gift of different personalities. We all have something to learn from one another and to offer to other people. So if you are having a hard time with someone, it is probably because you were meant to overcome that relationship in a certain aspect or way that God wanted you to handle it or to realize something from yourself through the way you handle it.

However, there is one universal truth throughout all cultures or group of people you will find always. No matter what "level" (and I quote this, because you shouldn't level someone, as you know as a basic from your first baby steps) or "standard" they came from. No matter what part of the world. No matter what type of situation they are in. You will understand that they know one thing for sure. That there is one standard of "kindness" and everyone knows that language, and the difference. They all know when "taking advantage of" speaks... and they also know how "caring" or "loving" feels and it's language. Even if you are a Korean and you go to Japan, when someone offers you a simple help, when let's say "your car breaks down" you know what that is. No matter the language or culture barrier. And that is what should be accomplished through us girls more often. I am still learning in that. Everyone is. Even you are, because the only perfected one out there is the Man Up Above. And He is the one in control of it all always, to make you like Him. As said: "He is the Potter, and You are the Clay."

No matter what age you are, what background you came from kindness speaks in different tests and trials. To what extent will you be patient and understanding with someone, or take your time in giving yourself, instead of focusing on yourself always? Girls should break those negative vibes in them where they compare themselves to others, or bring down other certain groups of people in a malicious or sneaky way, or think of themselves as always the uppercut in a game, or try to play a competition, or try to get involved in things they shouldn't be a part of. They should stop regarding what others will think if they do a certain action. Who gives a damn? I'm sorry for my language, if you are a reader who is sensitive, but hey, I want to make a point. It's not the world's business to who you are or what you do, and your relationship with Jesus. And if you think I am going religious here, well, don't second guess what happens from day to day, when you know there is a higher being playing at a role when it comes down to the end of it all. In every battle you face, there is a God watching up above. Here we are going to talk about Jesus in this essence, and point out that He is the one that matters in the end, not others. So play the role right always, here on Earth, while you are still alive and have the chance. In this world you have a heart to be tested, continuously. It is for your own good. And we are always, all still beginners. And still in the making. We are a work continuously in progress, and God knows that, which is why He is just a thought or prayer away. Have you ever heard the Serenity Prayer... sometimes that is the best remedy in a caught up situation or even just clearing your mind, and thinking "What would God do, in this scenario?" But make sure your heart is cleared first. Doing something just because you think it is right, doesn't complete it, you have to believe and back it up with your mind and heart connected into it as a whole. You know who you are in the end from that, and grow one more step closer to your Safe Haven, each day, if you grow and mature in this manner always.

And when I talk about stereotypes, I am also, yes, talking about the LGBT group in this essence, which is getting controversial today. Love is not defined to old traditions and old habits that were once found during the Bible periods. Just because someone said "man" and "woman" in the Bible. That was just a definition to help those who were used to life during that period. Life has advanced now, and things are more difficult. Just like you. Your life now, is different during this generation than it was during your parents' period. Also God, was pointing us principles to help raise those during those times, who were having a hard time of finding themselves or making themselves feel at ease in a certain culture at that age. Life, these days, is different now. And what we come across with, is different. We have different obstacles or problems to face than when "they" did, during the Bible times. For example, now your credit card can become stolen by a thief and you have to block your ATM. Where as back in those days, all they thought about was trading vegetables or certain furs for money. Maybe their coins would be stolen, at most. But this is a new day and age. The one thing that speaks is your understanding and kindness to others, not bitterness or resentment hidden inside always. That eats us up. It is acceptable to be open now. It isn't a crime. But to some extent as to help you, and others too, in order to be safe and at ease in the mind for everyone before going to sleep at night. You find that when you let out resentment, bitterness or anger, you also bring in peace and a calm serenity to how to help others, and yourself in the end too. And that brings in overall, the true form of healing in this world. Let's uplift the LGBT group, because you are not the only one suffering with problems these days.

No one is perfect, and that is the lesson to be learned from here.

Sources for Images:

ET Contributors. July, 02, 2018. "No Perfect Body! Why We Need to Stop Stereotyping Beauty." The Economic Times. February 19, 2020. <https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/magazines/panache/between-the-lines/no-perfect-body-why-we-need-to-stop-stereotyping-beauty/articleshow/63910928.cms>.